Have college or university or trades ambition. Your lame ass 10 Rules for dating my Niece Uncle shirt does not count as ambition. The other day we drove by a guy walking by an elder struggling with crutches, trying to get his garbage cans back to his house. i zipped back to help and found another man who pulled over to help him. i nodded my head to the guy and went on. I said my girl, go for the man who helps the elder… not the one who walks by. I put out an EP before my first album while going to university and working for an arts organization as a facilitator and design assistant.